Hearing Aid Tips

I recently found an article on the Denver Post website listing tips for people who wear hearing aids, whether they’ve worn them for a long time or are just starting out.

I think one of the most important tips listed is the one about understanding expectations.  As I’ve mentioned in previous blog posts, hearing aids (or any kind of hearing device) do not cure hearing loss.  You will not be able to magically hear everything perfectly or hear everything you were missing before.  The article points out that

Your hearing system is stimulating nerves that may not have been stimulated in a long while; it takes time for your brain to adjust and organize the new sounds you’re hearing.

So, don’t get frustrated if you find yourself getting confused or your hearing aids aren’t working as quickly or as efficenlty as you’d like.  Be patient. Give yourself time to adjust. As I’ve learned, the best things in life take time.

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Happy 2015!


Happy New Year!

I can’t believe it’s 2015 already. How fast time goes. It seems like only yesterday that I graduated from high school. In fact, my first 10 year reunion is sometime this year.  Yeah, I’m getting old *laughs*.

I didn’t do much for New Years. My husband and I stayed up watching Robin Williams movies (The Birdcage and Good Morning, Vietnam) before watching the ball drop on TV. This was the first time in about 5 years that I’ve been able to stay up past midnight on New Years Eve.   We drank an entire bottle of sparkling cider and watched a bit of the festivities in Times Square before going to bed around 1 am and waking up at 10:30.

Celebrating New Years Eve gets a lot less crazy once you’re pushing 30 ;). I can hardly stay up past 9:30pm on a regular day. I get all sleepy-eyed at 9 haha.

I hope you all had a fantastic Christmas (or whatever holiday you may celebrate) and a great New Year!

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Sign Language Restaurant in Toronto

My step-mother sent me this video in an email last night.  Apparently, there is a brand new restaurant in Toronto, Canada in which the staff uses American Sign Language and the guests are encouraged to order using sign language.  The restaurant is aptly named “Signs”.

Who else wants to go to Toronto with me?

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Marvel Creates a Hard-of-Hearing Superhero!

My best friend sent me this link in a Facebook message.   Essentially, Marvel Comics is creating a hard of hearing (they used “hearing disabled”) superhero called The Blue Ear. This is incredibly cool and so inspiring. I wish someone had thought of this when I was a kid.

Here is one of the covers for the comic book:

hard of hearing superhero

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10 Things You Should Know About Dating Some Who is Hard of Hearing

1. Be Patient with Us


We may need you to repeat yourself a few times before we fully understand what you’re trying to tell us.  We aren’t doing this to annoy you. We just really want to know what you’re saying.

2. We Aren’t Ignoring You. 


Remember that we can’t hear as well as you can.  If we don’t respond or react to something you said, it’s probably because we didn’t hear you. Try getting our attention by touching us, waving at us, or stomping lightly on the floor.

3. If We Need Help, We’ll Ask You for It.  


Most of us are pretty independent and can do things on our own.  Please don’t assume that you have to help us with everything because we’re hard of hearing. If we need your help, we’ll ask you for it.

4. It May Take Us a Little Longer to Get Ready. 


We have one or two extra things to put on every morning and take out every night. It doesn’t take too long to put hearing aids on, but please remember that hearing aids are an essential part of our ensemble. Please give us time.

5. Sometimes We May Not Say Something Correctly.  


Being hard of hearing often messes with our speech because we can’t hear words correctly. While most of us go through years of speech therapy, there will be times when we muddle up a word.  Some of us may even have a slight accent. Please be understanding and supportive. Laughing at us doesn’t help.

6. Loud Noises Can Be Painful. 


Yes, we cannot hear as well as you can, but that doesn’t mean that loud noises don’t hurt our ears.  Some hearing loss is caused by damaged hair follicles that would normally protect us from loud noises.  Because our hair follicles are damaged, loud noises can be pretty painful.

7. Don’t Assume We Can’t Do Something.

determined cat

While some things may be challenging for us, there are a lot of things that we can do.  Please don’t assume we can’t do something because we’re hard of hearing. We may need assistance or accommodations, but we can do things just as well as everyone else, and we may even do it better if given the chance.

8. Not All of Us Know Sign Language. 

signing cat

Not all hard of hearing or deaf people know sign language. This is a pretty common misconception. A lot of us learn to talk and never learn sign language. 

9. We Can Be Self-Conscious. 

shy cat

Having a disability is hard, especially one that makes you obviously different from everyone else. We can be rather self-conscious due to teasing and bullying we endured as children. Please don’t stare at our hearing devices or whisper about the way we talk. 

10. We Want to Be Loved. 

I love you too

We may be different, but we want to be loved just as much as everyone else.

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A Possible Cure for Deafness? Maybe!

inner ear

All my life, I have been told that my hearing loss is something that cannot be truly cured.  Hearing aids certainly help, but they don’t fix the problem.  However, recent studies have shown that we might be getting close to an actual cure for hearing loss.  

Researchers at the Massachusetts Eye and Ear and Harvard Medical School have demonstrated that hair cells can be regrown “using a drug to stimulate resident cells to become new hair cells, resulting in partial recovery of hearing in mouse ears damaged by noise trauma. This finding holds great potential for future therapeutic application that may someday reverse deafness in humans.”

This kind of research is extremely exciting for me.  I have damaged hair cells in my cochlea that prevent me from hearing normally. Given the location of these hair cells, I have always believed that I would be hard of hearing for the rest of my life. I mean, how could anyone fix damaged hair cells? Well, it seems they have figured it out.

The drug applied to the cochlea inhibited a signal generated by a protein called Notch on the surface of cells that surround hair cells. These supporting cells turned into new hair cells upon treatment with the drug. Replacing hair cells improved hearing in the mice, and the improved hearing could be traced to the areas in which supporting cells had become new hair cells.

I’m not sure what this drug is exactly, but it sounds amazing.  It regrows damaged hair cells and thus allows for improved hearing.  This is the first time in history that hair cell regeneration has worked in mammals (mice).  Hopefully one day we will be able to see successful hair cell regeneration in humans, which could lead to an actual cure for deafness. Though, I would like to know how they insert the drug into the cochlea. Would it be an invasive, painful procedure for humans?  It will be interesting to see how this research progresses.

I cannot imagine what it would be like to hear normally, but I find this kind of research fascinating and really exciting. Yes, I would probably be very uncomfortable with the level of noise, but I think I would get used to it.  Who knows? It might be nice to be able to hear the lyrics of songs and to not constantly have to ask people to repeat themselves.   

Here are some more articles on this topic:



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Speech Therapy Regression

speech therapy

As a child, I spent many years in speech therapy. Because of my hearing loss, I had a very hard time with consonants (C, CH, SH, T, TH, etc.). I also spoke very fast and very softly. Understanding me was very frustrating, but it was also frustrating for me because it was such a struggle to be understood. Other kids made fun of me. Adults yelled at me.

It took many years of therapy and hard work to stop getting “Why do you talk funny?” or for people to more or less stop asking me where my accent is from. I also stopped getting “What?” over and over in conversations. While most of it was due to the speech therapy, I think a lot of it had to do with hanging out with people who knew me well enough to know about my hearing loss and had gotten used to how I speak.

Recently, I moved back to my home state of Colorado and started making new friends at the church my fiance and I go to. These people are very nice, but they don’t know me very well, so they aren’t that familiar with how I talk. Over time, I started noticing that I’ve been getting “What?” in response to things I said, and it was happening at an annoying regularity.

My mom is also hard of hearing, but she has mentioned that she has a hard time hearing me. At one point, she suggested that maybe I was regressing back to my pre-speech therapy days. I shrugged it off at first, but the more people said “What?” and the more I had to repeat myself in conversations, the more I began to wonder if maybe my mom was right.

In a discussion about it last night, my mom told me that perhaps I have gotten lazy. Not on purpose, really. I just have gotten so used to no one saying anything to correct me, I guess I assumed I was doing just fine and stopped trying as hard to make sure I was speaking correctly. This laziness (for the lack of a better term) means that I forget everything I was taught when I speak too fast, so my speech becomes garbled and (as my mother put it) mushy.

I was trying to ask my mom about moving the dresser in the garage the other day, and she looked at me funny, having no idea what I was talking about. “What’s a resser?” I had to repeat myself several times before she realized I was talking about a “Dresser”. Though I was saying, “Dresser”, I wasn’t putting enough emphasis on the D, thus the D was nearly lost entirely.

The realization that I am regressing is depressing and frustrating. I hate being misunderstood or having to repeat myself to others all the time, especially when I worked so hard to be understood as a child.

I tried looking up information about speech therapy regression in adults, but I couldn’t find anything that didn’t reference autism or adults who become hard of hearing as adults, not as children. I tried a few different search terms, but came up with nothing.

I don’t want to have to go back to speech therapy and deal with the annoyance and embarrassment of it all. I’m hoping that reminding myself to slow down and focus on what I am saying will help.

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